THE BRIDGE: The Problem of the Paradigm

By Darryl James

African Americans are in need of a paradigm shift.

We are without a compass, without a consistent methodology and without our own center.

We appear to be rebelling against the dark and the light, the cold and the hot, against motion and inactivity. We are rebelling against the revolution and revolting against nothing, yet many of us claim to be revolutionaries.

We focus on trying to be Malcolm or Martin or Huey Newton as though there is nothing else. The true leaders of our communities are so few and far between that we can¹t even coalesce around any real movement.

We feel that we are entitled to be lead, but we will not allow anyone to lead. One or a group of us can not show up and make things better, because our divisive language will tear down the effort. We attack them and burn them out, yet still expect them to serve us AND serve us the way we want them to. "Don¹t do it that way," "That¹s not what I would do," and "Don¹t write about THAT!"

We rail against differing groups of us and fail to find common ground even when we are standing in the same pit of snakes.

We have so little faith and trust in each other that we are not only unable to do business with each other, we are having difficulty establishing and maintaining relationships and we are even having difficulty having conversations.

Other people have a theological center, a cultural center and something from which discipline and world view are constructed, which in turn enables them to create a future by laying down a blue print.

Our problem is that we have none of that, but we pretend that we do. Individuals pretend to be "warriors," "kings," "queens," and "revolutionaries," but do nothing warlike, revolutionary, royal, noble or worthy of being followed. We refer to what once was, yet pay little respect to what it took to exist that way.

We once cheered to see one of our own move ahead into new territory. We cheered because we knew that it meant more opportunity for others of us. Now, we cheer, but the opportunities are for individuals who open no doors, fail to look back, and make every attempt to shut down the opportunities for others, in favor of being the new, the few and/or the only. Yet, we still cheer.

Kwame Toure, formerly known as Stokely Carmichael said "Capitalism will come to confuse us, causing us to concentrate on the form and so miss the essence."

Black Americans are focusing on what it looks like: Blacks in the Bush administration, laughing Negroes on television, and Oprah and Bob Johnson with billions. We are so focused on what we look like that we have missed what we could be. We talk about "us" making more money, but "we" do very little by way of long term empowerment for "us."

We are proud to see the building of mega churches even though they still employ mini solutions for the communities they suck dry.

There is no infrastructure and no nucleus to our community. We are like dandelions after you blow the tendrils away, blowing through the wind without being connected to anything.

That which we claim as our culture is a bastardization with the most diseased aspects of our mis-socialization substituting for culture. The waste product of our heritage has become the new legacy.

We have no cultural center. Our stereotypes are negative and damaging, but we perpetuate them and many of us become angry at the suggestion that we should dignify ourselves. To see this clearly, tell people you dislike Black comedy or rappers who call each other "Nigger."

We have no political center, typically following the Democratic party without intrinsically challenging or exploring the Republican party. Our foray into exploring the Republican party is to twist to the opposite of what we are. Our embrace of that party is typically for personal economic pursuit or personal political gain, tacitly ignoring the heavy racist hand with which the party is run. We are severely emotionally and illogically divided along party lines.

You can¹t even have collective intelligence if you don¹t have a base from which to move forward.

The Asian paradigm is excelling at technology. There is a default setting to excel in math and science.

Jews are about making money and being thrifty with the dollar. You¹ve heard the expression: "¹Jew¹ him down to a better deal." A stereotype, but a paradigm that keeps that community in the Black (pun intended).

We talk about how few Native Americans are still around. Their numbers are fewer than our own, yet they have land that they can call their own, and protected commerce on that same land.

What do we have aside from our own holiday and month of history? We are owed nothing, unless we write the check and force the bank to negotiate it. We demand reparations and can not even have an agreed upon methodology by the majority of us.

We have actually everything we need to be self-sufficient. But we can¹t come together and leverage what we have, because of our skewed worldview of others and ourselves. No one speaks of how difficult it is to do business with us more than us. Yet, we take all the trashing and abuse other cultures dish out when giving us the "privilege" of buying their wares. And making them rich.

Integration was a good idea, but the result was not. After the Civil Rights Movement, the immediate beneficiaries got theirs, moved away and dropped the ball. For them, it became an individual pursuit of the American dream. They, like white America, wanted to segregate from "those people," who were simply left behind with very little services or representation and no voice.

Instead of building schools, we send our children to other schools. Instead of building our own wealth, we participate in the wealth building of others, for small personal gain or for nothing. Instead of spending time rebuilding our communities, we chase after whites who move back into the communities we abandoned.

Yet, some thirty years after integration, we still find difficulties fitting in as a group. We can not assimilate, even though others can. More importantly, no one wants us to assimilate because we have nothing to offer when we show up.

We control no industry, even when we serve as the product or create the product. We don¹t even understand or control our actual collective wealth and power. We come to the table with confusion and divisive language and behavior among our poor and the wealthy alike.

We have given up everything desirable about us, sharing with others, while denying it to ourselves. We fail to cherish our own music, our own hairstyles, and even our own skin color, yet watch and fawn as others take pieces of us and claim them as their own.

We have no collective conscience. We are not building towards anything or striving to make things better for the next generation. We are just here making a spectacle out of ourselves and having a sense of entitlement.

A people are only as good as their weakest link. So how can we be strong when we watch our weakest fall with no or little action? Instead of creating programs to uplift our weakest, we curse them for being weak and reject any reason for their weakness.

We can excel and take our place among the world economy, but we need a new paradigm.

Now that I have raged against the machine of self-destruction, I will outline recommended paradigms in my next column. Stay tuned.

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Darryl James launched the only Black owned rap music publication, Rap Sheet in 1992. He is the author of "Bridging The Black Gender Gap," which is also the basis of a national seminar series. James was awarded the 2004 Non-fiction Award for his book on the Los Angeles Riots at the Seventh Annual Black History Month Book Fair and Conference in Chicago. He can be reached at djames@TheBlackGenderGap.com.